Looking for peace of mind? You’re in the right place.
end of life planning & after loss support
Planning with the end in mind can be overwhelming. I offer virtual end of life planning services, legacy planning, death doula services, and after loss support. In-person services are available for those in NYC and Brooklyn. Created for individuals of all ages — these services are a lasting gift for you and your loved ones. Let’s talk about the things that really matter.
In order to live well today, we must plan well for tomorrow.
Whether you found your way here because you’re ready to make end of life plans or you’re currently grieving the loss of a loved one, know that you've found the right place for support. You don’t have to navigate this alone.
I serve individuals and families dealing with dying, death, and grief—logistically and emotionally.
How can I help?
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End Of Life Planning
Practical guidance and support for you or a loved one. A holistic plan is a gift to those you care about.
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After Loss Support
Helping executors and family manage logistics and paperwork after the death of a loved one.
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Legacy Planning
Preserve unique life stories with family photos or custom recipe books, heirloom quilts, and other creative memorials.
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NYC Death Doula Support
Virtual and in-person end-of-life doula support for the dying and their families. Help navigating the emotional, logistical and spiritual aspects of death and grief, bedside support, and more.
Do any of the following resonate?
→ You recognize the importance of end of life planning but are procrastinating because you feel overwhelmed with where to start.
→ You worry about the chaos your family might face because your paperwork and digital life aren’t organized.
→ You or a loved one received a healthcare diagnosis, and are looking for emotional and practical support preparing for what comes next.
→ You need help facilitating conversations with your parents—about their wishes, if they've done any estate planning, and more.
→ You experienced a loss and are feeling overwhelmed navigating logistics and decisions.
You're in the right place
Get started with a free consultation
Meet Marni Blank
End Of Life Planner & NYC Death Doula
(…and recovering lawyer, trained mediator, entrepreneur and after loss consultant)
There’s nothing I love more than skipping the small talk and connecting with people on a deeper level. As soon as someone hears what I do, I can noticeably see the relief on their face at finding someone comfortable talking about death, dying and grief.
I’m in your corner, whether it’s to help initiate hard conversation with your parents or facing your own end-of-life plans. With years of training, a law degree, intimate knowledge of how to navigate the logistics of death, and a healthy dose of humor — we’re going to get through this together.
Meeting you where you are
We all can use a little help navigating major life transitions. I’m here with personalized support and practical tools, tailored to you and your individual circumstance.
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Find peace of mind as you plan for your future. Get help with your end of life planning and estate planning. Appropriate for people of all ages, especially those in the sandwich generation (those caring for children and also elderly parents). Complete with customized end of life planner and resources.
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Give your elderly loved ones the gift of compassionate guidance through their end of life planning journey, ensuring their wishes are respected and their legacy honored with our personalized support services. Complete with a personalized end of life planning workbook and resources.
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Preserve your unique life story and values, leaving a lasting impact for future generations with our tailored legacy planning support.
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Get help managing grief and navigating the post-death paperwork of loved ones. We offer personalized post-death checklists and hands-on task support. Virtual executor support available.
Kind Words From Clients
FAQ’s
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It's never too early. Millennials and Gen Xers (30’s-50’s) are thinking about their aging parents and how to feel prepared for death themselves.
Whether you're experiencing a life milestone (having a child, getting married/divorced, a health scare or diagnosis), accumulating wealth, or simply recognizing the importance of preparedness, now is the right time. Planning offers peace of mind and ensures your wishes are clear—a valuable gift to your loved ones.
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My approach tackles both the logistical aspects of a difficult subject and the emotional roadblocks that typically stop people from starting (or finishing) the process.
I have the technical skills from my law degree and mediation training as well as the emotional intelligence and soft skills of an empathic, trained death doula. When needed, I offer referrals to other like-minded professionals who can round out your team.
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Discussing death can be uncomfortable. My approach is gentle, focusing on emotional support without losing sight of the paperwork. My goal is to transform the conversation into an opportunity for positive reflection and planning, making the experience more comfortable and allowing you to navigate at your own pace.
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Yes, I am trained as a grief coach, after loss consultant, and mediator. Grief affects us all differently. My goal is to be both a supportive ear and practical pair of hands, providing resources and a friendly companion on your journey. You're not alone.
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Absolutely! I use virtual consultations, video calls, and secure online platforms to provide support and guidance outside the NYC area. If state-specific guidance is needed, I can assist with referral to attorneys and other professionals who can help wherever you are.